In Tibet, a Writer Finds Peace on a Trek to 18,000 Feet

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by Deepa Anappara

February 20, 2026

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A writer embarks on a perilous journey to Tibet's Dolma Pass, reaching an altitude of 18,000 feet, as a means of coping with the emotional turmoil following her sister's death and her husband's decision for divorce. This trek becomes a pivotal experience in her quest for peace and healing. The writer details her failed attempts to salvage her marriage by altering her behavior, including dedicating herself to her work and attempting to conform to her husband's expectations. Despite her efforts, her spouse remained distant, leading her to acknowledge the reality of their fractured relationship. During her pilgrimage around Mount Kailash, a sacred site for multiple religions, she finds solace in the natural environment and spiritual significance of the region. The trek, though challenging, offers her clarity and a renewed sense of self. This story resonates with readers by highlighting the transformative power of nature and personal resilience in overcoming loss and adversity, offering inspiration for those navigating similar challenges.

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Originally published on NYT Homepage on 2/20/2026