My awkward dilemma as the only solo traveller on a cruise
Sydney Morning Herald
by Justine CostiganFebruary 20, 2026
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Walking into the dining room on the first night of her river cruise, the author felt like an outsider—alone among couples and families. As the only solo traveler, she became a curiosity, standing out as a "square peg in a round hole." The experience forced her to confront her desire to blend in and instead embrace the challenge of connecting with others. She decided to join groups, using small talk and shared interests to break the ice. This decision led her to explore different nationalities on board: the cliquey Americans, the laid-back Canadians, and the Brits, who were easy to spot due to their beige "traveling costumes."
The author discovered that stereotypes about these groups quickly dissolved as she got to know them better. The Americans, initially seen as hesitant because of political discussions, turned out to be curious and kind. The Brits, with their quirky sense of humor and sharp wit, became friends she connected with on a personal level. Even the Australians, who felt too familiar, surprised her by offering genuine connections. By stepping out of her comfort zone, the author not only avoided isolation but also formed meaningful bonds with people from diverse backgrounds.
This journey highlights the universal human need for connection and how stereotypes often crumble when people take the time to understand one another. For solo travelers, it’s a reminder that while travel can be lonely at first, it also offers opportunities for unexpected friendships and growth. The author’s experience on the cruise underscores how our instincts to socialize and belong are deeply ingrained in human behavior, making even the most awkward situations an opportunity for connection.
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Originally published on Sydney Morning Herald on 2/20/2026