My husband and I dated quietly at first. Six weeks in, I learnt I was pregnant
Sydney Morning Herald
by Jane RoccaFebruary 14, 2026
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Sophie Ellis-Bextor, the 46-year-old mother of five and internationally renowned musician, reflects on her journey from unexpected beginnings to becoming a grounded parent through her family life. Known for hits like "Murder on the Dancefloor," Sophie shares how her relationships with influential figures shaped her understanding of love, music, and family. Her story begins with her maternal grandfather, who taught her the value of acts of service through his engineering skills in the British army and BBC special effects department. This early influence, combined with her father’s passion for music, laid the foundation for her career as a singer. After her parents’ separation at age four, her father introduced her to the world of music, including supporting Pet Shop Boys on tour—a pivotal moment that validated her musical aspirations.
Sophie’s stepfather, John, played a crucial role in her understanding of relationships and family life. Despite his lack of prior experience with children, he and Sophie’s mother, Janet, created a harmonious marriage that taught Sophie the importance of mutual respect and love. Tragically, John passed away six years ago, leaving
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Originally published on Sydney Morning Herald on 2/14/2026