What Makes an Object Sexy?

The New Yorker

by Lillian Fishman

February 25, 2026

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Anastasiia Fedorova’s *Second Skin* delves into the fascinating world of kinky subcultures, exploring how objects can become deeply intertwined with identity and desire. Through personal anecdotes and interviews, Fedorova examines the transformative power of objects—from leather masks that alter perceptions of self to classic BMWs that inspire secret encounters. The book challenges the notion that material possessions lose their allure upon acquisition, instead arguing that for fetishists, these items grow more potent over time. By blending humor, curiosity, and intimate storytelling, Fedorova reframes objectophilia as a form of resistance against societal norms, offering insights into how we all might learn from those who embrace the playful surrender to their desires. Fedorova’s upbringing in post-Soviet Russia gave her an early appreciation for the “spiritual aura” of branded goods. Now a writer and curator based in London, she immerses herself in kink communities, chronicling how individuals infuse objects with meaning and status. Her book historicizes these pursuits as a form of resistance for sexual minorities whose desires often defy mainstream expectations. Fedorova’s own experiences include wearing latex catsuits that free her from gender constraints and transform her into a “th

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Originally published on The New Yorker on 2/25/2026